Thursday, March 25, 2010

Unit 6 Practicing Universal Loving-Kindness

Hello everyone,
The development of universal loving-kindness is the final leap in our interpersonal development. Integral health requires that we begin to extend our capacities-i.e. empathic listening, open heartedness, sensitivity, generosity, emotional intimacy, seeing, and caring for others, beyond our close group of loved ones to all of humankind.

May all individuals gain freedom from suffering.
May all individuals find sustained health, happiness, and wholeness.
May I assist all individuals in gaining freedom from suffering.
May I assist all individuals in finding health, happiness, and wholeness.

The goal of this universal loving-kindness practice is meant to have a quite powerful impact in expanding your heart and mind. It can also serve as an antidote to anger and hatred, which is why I choose this area to be a focus of growth and development for me, because I have anger issues. Some specific exercises or activities that I implement to foster greater wellness in this area is anger management cool-down techniques or being physically active. It can help to shift your focus from personal love to universal loving-kindness.

This exercise allowed me to look into myself (into my heart). My mind was clear and I thought about how I can strive towards practicing universal loving-kindness to everyone, including enemies-not that I have any, really. This can be done everyday from a simple smile to a stranger, to something more complex as helping someone else accomplish something. You catch more bees with honey, than vinegar!!!

Tuesday, March 23, 2010

Unit 5 The Subtle Mind Exercise

Hello everyone,
The Loving-Kindness exercise reminds us that an enduring well-being requires a diminished focus on ourselves and our own needs and an enhanced concern and compassion for the welfare of others. Loving-kindness attracts loving-kindness. When we attract loving-kindness, our mind is calmer and a far better candidate for contemplative practice. We must practice mental workouts, because there will come a time in the development of our psychospiritual life that loving-kindness will reveal itself as a natural and effortless aspects of higher consciousness. Loving-kindness will become second nature after a little practice.

The Subtle Mind exercise reminds us that enduring well-being requires cultivation of wisdom. We cultivate wisdom by taming and training our mind, accessing its deeper levels, and exploring the essential nature of mind and experience. We must also tame our busy mind. We learn how to diminish the ceaseless mental movements of thoughts, feelings, and images. If we practice regularly, we will definitely be able to still the mind and develop a witnessing consciousness that subsequently progresses toward the stable and facile mind of calm-abiding. Unity consciousness and pure awareness are the culmination of the subtle mind practice.

I stretched and started with the recommended ten deep breaths and developed a focal point. I was able to settle into a natural ease of mind-body-spirit. My mind did wander, but I was able to redirect my attention by maintaining a firm concentration, while breathing and focusing. My peaceful breaths lead to a peaceful mind. My favorite part was the ocean wave sounds, because it reminds me of when I lived there for two years. I stretched and ended the exercise with a clear mind and feeling attentive, yet relaxed and refreshed. I prefer the Subtle Mind exercise over the Loving-kindness exercise.

Mental Workout

Hello everyone,
It is not possible for us to evolve our psychospiritual life and access its capacities and resources without daily practice. Those daily practices, such as the Loving-Kindness exercise and the Subtle Mind practice, are mental workouts. The Loving-Kindness practice opens our hearts to others and gradually diminish self-centeredness, priming our mind for further development. The Subtle Min practice addresses the three levels of the subtle mind: witnessing, calm-abiding, and unity consciousness. It opens our mind and reveals a penetrating wisdom that knows the truth of our life and of existence. Loving-Kindness and wisdom are the essential elements that heal at the source and drive human flourishing. The most meaningful aim of contemplative practice is not rest and relaxation but rather the progressive development of an expanded consciousness and its healing capacities. These mental workouts help us tame and train the mind, open the heart, expand consciousness, and progress toward psychospiritual flourishing. We implement mental workouts to foster our psychological health as we engage in contemplative practices to continue traveling the path of human flourishing.

Unit 4 Loving Kindness The Mind-Body-Spirit Paradigm

Hello everyone,
The goal of the Loving Kindness exercise is to create a heartfelt loving-kindness that diminishes your self-centeredness and quiets your mind. It is a practice that restores integral health, happiness, and wholeness into life. It requires focusing on reflecting their meaning and developing a certainty regarding their truth through regular practice. I accomplished this, however I was distracted, but was able to achieve giving and receiving love and kindness, and recognize stillness. The concept of giving and receiving love and kindness attracts love and kindness to better prepare our minds to travel the path of human flourishing. I had feelings of caring and affection toward myself and others. I welcomed the love and let it be! To begin I stretched, breathed, and focused myself. I loved the Ocean wave sounds in the background. I was able to think and clear my mind. I did find this exercise beneficial. My difficulties came when feelings of love and tenderness were mentioned in order to fully experience feelings of love. I have trouble with expressing my feelings of love, sharing and opening up. Some key points of the exercise were to fully embrace life and openess; love yourself first before loving others and be ok with that. I did not like the ending when it talked about the suffering of a loved one and strangers. Concluding this Loving Kindness exercise, I was empowered and refreshed, however left pondering. So, I think I am going to have to keep up this exercise. I know I will achieve better results next time.

Saturday, March 20, 2010

Unit 3 The Mind-Body Connection

Hello everyone,
Wellness, as a person centered orientation, relies heavily on the concept that the individual is aware of their strengths and needs. However, there is often little encouragement or expectation for the individual to self reflect or take a holistic personal inventory or to convey their awareness with their health practitioner. I must say, I am guilty of this myself. Based on my reflections and on a scale of 1-10, I rate my physical wellbeing as a 8, because I try to stay active and now that Spring is on the way I will be spending more time outside; my spiritual wellbeing as a 7, because I could be more disciplined in my Religion; and my psychological wellbeing as a 7.5, because I am pretty average. My physical goal is to increase my exercise plan frequency to three to four days a week, however I am committed to twice a week. My spiritual goal is to attend confession before Easter. My psychological goal is to expand my mind-Oh by the way thank you guys for helping me! The activities/exercises that I can implement into my life to assist in moving toward each of those goals are time management skills to accomodate those needs, exercise plan revision, and to use an effective meditation practice like The Crime of the Century relaxation exercise. I really enjoyed that, because for once I could actually think clearly, which I have not been able to do lately. However, I could not look at the screen images, they were too flashy and hurt my eyes, that is my only complaint, lol!

The Crime of the Century relaxation exercise discussed the Rainbow meditation, where you use your imagination to relax. I thought about how when light hits a prism, the colors are seperated, however, all of the colors are connected/blended. This exercise went through all of the body regions that are associated with the seven colors of the rainbow. Red (Spine), demonstrates feelings of being grounded, comfortable, and safe. Orange (Lower Stomach), demonstrates feelings of being centered and confident. Yellow (Upper Stomach), symbolic of feeling loved. Green (Heart), symbolic of feelings to share love/romance with whoever you choose to. Aqua Blue (Throat), capture feelings of meaning, willpower, creativity, accomplishment, goals, and purpose; though, I do not know what that purpose is at times. Deep Blue-Indigo (Forehead), capture feelings of balance from within, through exploring conscious/unconscious mind/body wisdom. Purple-Violet (Crown/top of Head), symbolic of feelings of being connected to a bigger part of the universe, feelings of (inner) peace, being bonded with family, friends, nature, earth, life, and homeostasis. Not feeling alone, feeling balanced overall. I think that I achieved the goal of The Crime of the Century relaxation exercise. When mt body is calm and relaxed, bring back a sensation of relaxation throughout the whole body to feel energized, and most importantly gain or regain a sense of awareness or better state of consciousness. As always it is best to stretch before and after every exercise! So, what is the ultimate crime of the century?!